I alwayssay that , I had a wonderful childhood. My parents divorced when I was a baby. My mum had to raise 4 children, help her sibblings to look after her mother and extended family. My mother never believed in self pity and I have learnt this from her, when she realised she wouldnt manage to look after the family on her salary, she went back to study. My sister was in boarding school and my brothers had the task of cooking for me and my granny, doing my homework with me as I was the youngest. When mum would arrive from her evening classes, she would then start knitting for hours stuff to sell to make sure our needs were met. She taught us to give and every family birthday and Christmas she would help us plan what we were going to give each other. She taught us to always look after our extended family especially if they were less fortunate than us. She comes from a very close family and has taught us that family is very important. My granny was my best friend, we did a lot of naughty things together like not telling mum we were selling mangoes to poor people when she was at work.
My sister always made sure I looked good and still does. She taught me to cook and look after the house.
My brothers have always been very protective of me. I am 50 and they still check up on me and want to know that I make the right decisoins about everything I do. My family have always made me feel so special.
I really enjoyed reading about the people that were most important in your life. I also enjoyed that fact that you gave an illustration for each person to make me understand each person a litte more! Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteDeirdre,
ReplyDeleteIf this is not a story of encouragement I do not know what is! Four children? I am glad your mom taught you not to throw pity parties that will keep you pushing foward, when you stop to throw pity parties you fall behind and my lose sight of where you need to be. I can see that you are a strong woman that knows how to run and mantain the home.
Deirde,
ReplyDeleteWhat I liked most about your web is that it shows what matters most to children...love. You may not have had a lot in material ways, but you had a mother who was rich with love, morals and a caring heart. I think our culture today over emphasizes materials possessions over what really matters most. Good job!
Deidre,
ReplyDeleteI loved your story and how determined you and your family were to make ends meet. Having a wonderful family is truly a blessing from God and it sounds like you were very blessed!!
Deidre
ReplyDeleteWhat a loving family!!! As I read your post I could feel the love between you and your family. I love your granny, what a special woman.